Help! She said no but I'm not convinced?

Two days ago:



Me: Hey, did you see the movie Adjustment bureau?

Her: No

Me: Can I take you out to the movie this Friday then?

Her: This friday? No

Me: Oh ok *walks away*

Her: Wait was that a serious question?

Me: Yeah, I know I joke around with you a lot but yes. *walk away*



I always joke around with her all the time. I've asked her to Mcdonalds with dollar menu coupons SEVERAL times as a joke and she understands this. But she asked the question, "Wait was that a serious question?" and that threw me off.



ABOUT HER

She's quiet and hardly talks but she's talked to me a bit because I make fun of her. We laugh a lot together and make fun of each other, I feel really comfortable with her. She has that personality I like: not too obsessed with looks, no makeup, knows how to talk and make jokes, etc.



So it's been 2 days and we've been talking normally. Today we talked about her SAT this saturday no awkward anything between us. She stole a cookie from my hand today and joked with me she was saving me from obesity. She then took a second cookie and gave me half.



Should I ask again? I don't want to feel like I'm bothering her. It took every nerve in me to ask her out the first time.Help! She said no but I'm not convinced?
well it sounds a bit like the boy who cried wolf. if your not familiar with the story ( which im sure you have) , long story short, this boy did work on a farm and he cried wolf so he would get off work early. he did this a lot and then when a wolf did come people thought he was lying again and never came.

so yea basically you joke around a lot, which there is nothing bad with that, but if you do it too much in the same cases with the same person then she can be a bit confused when you ask her a serious question then she doesnt know if your actually asking her or your just joking around and maybe she doesnt want to say yes because she may be afraid that you would then say well i wasnt being serious, and then maybe tease her because she thought that you were being serious.
Just be like hey i'm not kidding around with you this time im going to be serious, want to go out sometime?



And that's it playing with a girl too much especially a quiet girl, makes them think you are just playing games, just be real with the girl and have fun in date, thats when you can joke around to make her laugh =D



GOOD luck lolz ^^Help! She said no but I'm not convinced?
I think you should ask her again. You both get along very well and I think she was caught off guard by the fact that you were REALLY asking her, not just joking about McDonalds. I'd say go for it. I don't find it a bother if someone asks me out a second time, even I said no the first. If she says no again, well, at least then you'll know she's not interested to taking it to that next level. Good luck!
hahahaha omg that happen to me ones..I tought he was joking cause he jokes to much.....

yes ask her again and tell her that is not a joke
No always means yes.
Yes u should ask her again, and make sure she knows ur serious.
say 'i know last time went wrong seeing I joke too much so I'll give it another go, wana go out sometime?'
yes ask again
Personally, when she said this Friday no? It seemed to me like she had plans or she was just carrying on the conversation. She didn't really think that u were seriously going to ask her, as from what I have read. And from the cookie thing, it should totally count as flirting. But the one thing is though...us might ruin the friendship. So I would ask her again but be like "or should we just stay friends" or something like that. Cause u don't want to come on to strong. And be causally about it, so that it's not too romantic yet. Cause u wanna hangout. So act more friendly, even though u care about her. Hope I could help with your dilemma. :)