my ex and i were together for 5 years and he's 30 and im 25 we broke up 3 months ago due to problems and issues...but we never took a break in the 5 years we were together..but 3 months ago we both just walked away and didnt speak or keep in contact until recently he started asking around about me then we ran into each other and suddenly we started talking and hanging out ,,but i am the one that has been contacting him. I feel like if i dont call him ..he wont call me...but every time ive contacted him he's responded and we've hung out..and we have hooked up 3 times since we started talking...but i dont want to talk about anything..i just want to keep the past in the past and see how things go...he hasnt said anything either.but when we hang out the connection seems to still be there..and i love him so much and i just want us to get back together..but i guess im just scared to bring up anything and hear what i dont want to hear..but..we hung out all day without hooking up and he kept saying that he had such a great day..and the next day he came over my house and we hooked up but he seemed a little colder and left ..i dont know what to do..im so confused and he's confusing me..is it ok that im the one that keeps contacting him? cause it seems like he doesnt mind it...what should i do ..'? someone please help me..he wont actually pick up the phone n call but he'll somehow contact me thru email cause he knows i have a blackberry and i get it on the phone..but it will be like coupons to something or fwed emails..but he is so distant ..and when i asked him what he was doing friday and if he wanted to do something..he told me i was better off plannin something else...cause he wasnt sure what he was doing...and i told him dont worry i can plan something else thats not the problem i just thought id ask u..im just hurting so bad..i feel like cryin..i know he has a lot going on for him..he's moving ...he has school..so i dont know what to do..i wish i can turn back time and fix things.. :( i want to talk to him but i feel like he's holding this front and he wont really say what he's feeling..i dont know what to doI cant seem to figure him out? please someone help?
You need to stop being so available to him. He's not contacting you asking you to hang out for a reason... he currently doesn't want to. But when you do, you hang out and you wind up hooking up. So do you HONESTLY think a man is going to say no to free sex? I know you love him, but you're letting him walk all over you and use you without making any commitment to you.
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