Friday, March 9, 2012

Help! She said no but I'm not convinced?

Two days ago:



Me: Hey, did you see the movie Adjustment bureau?

Her: No

Me: Can I take you out to the movie this Friday then?

Her: This friday? No

Me: Oh ok *walks away*

Her: Wait was that a serious question?

Me: Yeah, I know I joke around with you a lot but yes. *walk away*



I always joke around with her all the time. I've asked her to Mcdonalds with dollar menu coupons SEVERAL times as a joke and she understands this. But she asked the question, "Wait was that a serious question?" and that threw me off.



ABOUT HER

She's quiet and hardly talks but she's talked to me a bit because I make fun of her. We laugh a lot together and make fun of each other, I feel really comfortable with her. She has that personality I like: not too obsessed with looks, no makeup, knows how to talk and make jokes, etc.



So it's been 2 days and we've been talking normally. Today we talked about her SAT this saturday no awkward anything between us. I got a cookie from my friend and she stole the cookie from my hand today and joked with me she was saving me from obesity. She then took asked my friend for a second cookie and I was just joking the whole time about how I was starving and she was rubbing it in on how good it tasted and then she gave me the last half. She's so cute!



Should I ask again? I don't want to feel like I'm bothering her. It took every nerve in me to ask her out the first time.Help! She said no but I'm not convinced?
From what I can tell, she may have been confused when you asked her out. If she had to ask "is this a serious question" then she probably thought you were just joking. It's good that were able to still have non awkward conversations with her after you asked her out. I think you should ask her out again but maybe say "we should hang out sometime" and give it some time, like you can wait a week. Haha goodluck!Help! She said no but I'm not convinced?
Just say

"so do you want to go watch that movie with me? it looks like a good movie an I thought it'd be fun you can say no if you want and I'll completely understand" try not to make it sound like you're forcing her to go with you

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